Last week ,there was a discussion going on in my class regarding differnce between laughter and happiness.But no student had the perfect answer.One said that happiness is what we feel and laughter is the thing that we show.He was probably right.Other said for him laughter and happiness are one.Another student said that happiness is state of mind when we feel content and laughter is the outcome of our internal happiness.Each student had different views.And finally they turned towards me.They all wanted to know about my take on happiness and laughter.
When I thought about it I was instantly reminded of the song ‘tum itna jo muskura rahe ho, kya gamm hai jisko chipa rahe ho.’ We all go through this phase very often.Dont we? And sometimes we misinterpret our laughter with happiness.Many a times we are sad at heart but we do want to reveal our sadness to others and we try to behave normal and we chat and laugh with them.
As I was not clear myself I told them that happiness is something we feel from inside like when our soul is happy and we usually laugh with others because we dont want to reveal our state of heart and mind to others.It is in our nature that we do not reveal causes of our sadness to everyone.I found myself digging deeper and classifying the attitude of people towards happiness in four categories.Firstly there are people who dont give a damn to what is going on in their life.They are cool by nature.So they are always happy.But it is very much difficult to be like them.Secondly there are people who get irked even at little things and cry over it for a longer period.These type of people are never happy.Thirdly there are people who do not reveal their sadness to others and keep an artificial smile on their face.These type of people are not happy in true sense and most of us belong to this category.And lastly there are people who take lessons from the wrong happenings in their lives.These are the people who are you can say diligent by nature who want to improve themselves and they can be happy in true sense.
Class was satisfied with my theory but at heart I was not so much satisfied.I was thinking that I complicated the most beautiful and simple thing called happiness.Whenever I am confused I turn towards my kids and I always come out with a satisfactory and perfect answer.When I came back home I asked my 9 year old girl the same question ‘ what is the difference between laughter and happiness?’ And she didnt disappoint me that time even.She synopsized all my theory in one sentence,” Mom, khushi ki awaaz nahi hoti.”